Tuesday, December 30, 2008

The Shot

I think the year was 1963, October the month. My high school sweetheart, Bonnie, and I traveled to Midland, MI for a long weekend with my brother Dean and his family. It was a Michigan fall, trees pretty much barren of leaves, but still a pretty time of year. Leaves on the ground, the wind brisk, and a hint of winter in the offing. We enjoyed the weekend, good conversation, good food, and even a partridge hunt.

Dean and I left the house Saturday morning after breakfast and headed out to the field. I do not know where we were, it was an area of hard woods, with patches of wetlands and marsh. Mixed shrubs and tall grass provided ample cover. We did not see much in the way of birds, but enough to keep our interest for a few hours.

We entered a lowland area that had hummocks of grass. It was not easy walking as you had to step in deep grooves along side these grass hummocks or you had to step up on the hump and footing was a little precarious. You could twist your ankle if you slipped, but it wasn't dangerous, just inconvenient.

I had moved off to one side and had gained the edge of some hardwoods where the walking was easier. Dean was still laboring through the hump backed grass area. A large hummock was in front of him and he had stepped up on it due to its size. About that time a partridge flushed in front of him. Dean brought his gun up, stepped back slightly to get a stance so the kick of the gun didn't knock him down and promptly stepped off the hummock into one of the deep ridges. He fell backwards, his gun was loosely pointed with his right hand and his left foot was coming up into the air. The shotgun discharged and Dean disappeared from sight in the tall grass. Suddenly the air was shattered with this wild cackling laughter which Dean could emit. I heard the flush, saw the movement of my brother to take a shot, saw him fall and shoot at the same time but did not see what happened.

I yelled to see if he was OK and what Dean yelled was "I got the damn thing. Can you believe that, I got it." Sure enough, falling backward, gun in one hand, about the take a serious pratfall, Dean shot the bird one handed. I'm not sure if we got anymore partridge that day, but I witnessed "The Shot."

It was a good day!

Friday, December 26, 2008

Christmas 2008

Seems a little early to include thoughts of Christmas 2008 in this blog. However it is early in the morning the day after and I'm a bit restless. I am wondering what I will do with the remaining days off I have. I always have goals of things I'd like to do but seldom get them done and end up feeling like I've wasted an opportunity. Regardless, I shall forge ahead today and hope for the best.

My lovely wife is a hard person to read. She has always expressed her feeling about things, sometimes a little too hasty in her comments. I've listened to her over these past 17 years and learned that it is kind of her way, she does love me and you couldn't ask for a more loyal person. One of the things that she always tends to hide is her enjoyment of things. Many times if you give her a gift she'll say things like you shouldn't spend so much. I don't, she and I have a very different impression of what is too much. There are times I get a little exasperated with her moodiness, however I've also learned to be quiet and wait, it will change.

Yesterday, December 25, 2008 was such a day. The day started with her being worried over her father's health, and feeling rushed because in the afternoon the "crew" would be coming for Christmas at our home and she needed to go spend some time with her Dad. When Terry is rushed she gets cranky, so that was the setting when she and I sat down with coffee and gifts to open early Christmas morning. However I tried to help her prepare the "Gumbo" for the afternoon's meal, and we kind of puttered around fixing and cleaning. Finally, when the family began to arrive Terry settled into trying to enjoy the moment. Grandson Sam gets pretty rambunctious and can be a bit of a load, however everyone pretty much takes him in stride. Tracy's kids Tim and Kim have grown so much and Tim is now out of high school. Terry's brother Barry and his wife Karen and their two children Kayla and Seth were here. A couple of fine looking kids and wonderful athletes. Seth earned all-state honors for high school football and is getting some recruiting action from area colleges. Kayla is a terrific volleyball player and is also an all-state athlete. They are also good kids.

So the house filled, presents passed and opened, and dinner served. The "Gumbo" went well, the ham was tasty, the poppers were spicy and the meal enjoyed. Terry got a new camera for Christmas and rewarded me by taking a lot of pictures. She also seemed to really enjoy her camera as she got used to it. She was decked out in a nice white top decorated with cardinals and looked full of the Christmas spirit.


I had made several power point presentations while fiddling around over the past few weeks. One of them was a memorial to Cilla our little dog that passed away on December 16. One presentation was just a little romantic ditty I did based on Ann Murray's song, "Can I Have This Dance for the Rest Of My Life." It is a series of pictures of Terry. Then finally, I put together 72 slides of previous Christmas pictures taken here at this house and had some Christmas music playing behind them. I thought the folks would enjoy the pictures of past Christmases. Well Terry insisted I play all of the shows and ended up in tears with Cilla's. Sometimes she shows me the depth of her feeling, not often, but if you look for it you can be rewarded by how much she cares. Such was the case this night. She wanted everyone to see the effort I had put into to honoring my love for her. It made me feel good that it was so appreciated, not by anyone else, that wasn't my goal, but by her. The night ended well, the dishes cleaned, the mess picked up and in bed by 9 PM. All is well in the Floria household this Christmas of 2008.

Mother's Knitting

When I was young, in high school my Mom & Dad could not afford much for gifts. My Mother was a talented lady. She would knit presents for all of the grand kids, eight of them. She also would knit for her children. The clickity-clack of the knitting needles would begin in August and mittens, scarfs, sweaters and lovely hand made items would start to accumulate. My Mother had the capability of knitting while socializing. She might carry on a conversation and all of a sudden she would grow quiet and concentrate as she came to the end of a row or some intricate knitting maneuver.

My sister Phyllis took up knitting and for a number of years when I was in high school I had the most beautiful collection of heavy cable knit sweaters, ski sweaters, and even a beautiful blue Angora sweater. All of them hand made. What a talent these kin folk had and what beautiful garments were provided. There certainly was the cost of the yarn, but the love and care that went into making those items probably wrapped the receiver in as much warmth as the sweater or mittens did. It was always appreciated, but the skill of patience of the craft was amazing.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Cilla


Cilla passed away December 12, 2008 at approximately 7:00 PM. Cilla came to live with us around 2002. She had lived with our daughter Tracy and her husband and children. However, their home burned and they decided they did not want to take Cilla to the new home. Both adults worked and were gone a lot leaving Cilla alone. Cilla began to chew shoes and was quite destructive. After the fire we kept Cilla and when they decided they did not want her back we invited her to live with us. Cilla had a problem with heart worm which was successfully treated however Cilla had a cough, and she often coughed up some phlegm.

If Cilla ran or got real excited she would cough. I often wondered how long her heart would stand the strain of coughing and shortness of breath. When we got Cilla in 2002 she was 6 years old, when she passed yesterday we estimate her to be 12.

She was a good dog. We never had any trouble with her chewing anything. Sometimes we underestimated her bladder capacity and she had an accident in the bathroom on a rug. Sometimes she seemed to have a digestive tract problem and would have a BM in the house, same place. In the last few years there were days when she just did not seem to feel well. She would get lethargic, listless and slept a lot. However, we also discovered that she suffered seizures which seemed to really take the starch out of her. Perhaps the days she didn't feel well were the aftermath of a seizure.

Regardless Cilla was a courageous little dog. She enjoyed life. Some of the favorite things were to sit in the recliner with Terry while we watched TV. If Terry were not here and I was in my recliner then she would come and want to sit next to me. However, if Terry were in her chair, that is where she wanted to be, even to the extent that she would get up off my lap and want to be put down so she could go sit with Terry. I didn't mind, I took up more room in the chair and she could snuggle down between the chair my leg. With Terry she could. It got funny because she always sat on Terry's left side. However if Terry got up she would shift to the right side or lay cross ways in the chair. When Terry returned she would tell Cilla to move over and she would.

Another favorite position was if I were working on the computer she would come and stand in front of me. She didn't beg, she just looked at you. I would pick her up and hold her in the crook of my left arm while I read news, sports or read emails. She would lay astraddle of my arm with her head resting on my forearm. She was comfortable, but sometimes in the summer it would get too hot.

Cilla was a bit of a persnickety eater. She ate mostly table scraps. If I had bacon and eggs she would enjoy a bit of my bacon which I tore up and distributed around the plate. I would tell her she had a plate full of bacon, but I think she tolerated my lame joke. If we had breakfast sausage Terry would give her some of hers. We tried dog food in pouches, cans, and dry. If we waited long enough she would eat it, but I always had the impression that she wanted table food. She liked spaghetti and goulash. She did not like fish. Cheese, oh boy, she loved swiss, cheddar and colby. I did not give her a lot, but if I opened a package of cheese she would come down off the couch, chair or wherever to share in her treat. If I opened a package of lunch meat, particularly ham she would drift in from wherever she was with her little nose twitching in anticipation of getting a morsel, which she often did.

Cilla was not a real active dog. However she really enjoyed our walks around the property. She would sniff and poke and explore taking in all the smells. I often wished she could tell me what story she was learning. Cilla was an exuberant little dog, often stamping her feet, lurching in enticement as she searched and teased. She never got very far away and if we got into deep grass tried to stay close.

Cilla loved to go for rides in the car. If you said do you want to go for a ride she would come and stand in front of me stamping her front feet in anticipation. If you walked out the door she would be right at your feet not wanting to miss a moment.
When Terry and I went grocery shopping she sat on Terry's lap looking out the window as we drove to the store. Then she sat in Terry's chair and would wait patiently for our return. Sometimes I would take her in the truck out to the feed store to get bird feed. She would come over and sit half on my lap and snuggle while we rode to do our errand.

In some ways she was a demanding dog. But what she demanded was affection, nothing else. She loved to have her ears scratched and her tummy rubbed. She was a loving little dog with a heart as big as her tiny little body. We will miss her. She will be fondly remembered for as long as Terry and I live. Thank you Cilla for being a part of our life.

Sunday, December 7, 2008

A trip in the desert




Perhaps it is the time of year, perhaps it is the temperature. I am not getting out of the house today, the temperature hasn't gone above 32 yet and it is mid-afternoon. So, I've scanned pictures, played Christmas music and watched some football. I am struck by memories. I went back and scanned in some photo albums we have filled with pictures taken before we had digital cameras.

Exactly sixteen years ago Terry and I were on a one week trek to Las Vegas. I had purchased a statewide distributorship for Sno Biz shaved ice. They marketed the flavors and provided you with some support. It was a new company. Their first convention of distributors from around the country was to be in Las Vegas. A little manufacturing company I was part owner of in Newport, AR built a vending cart that would be touted to be used in the Wal*Mart program. Wal*Mart signed an agreement with Sno Biz to allow their retailers to set up outside Wal*Mart stores and sell shaved ice products. A business partner and I had a stand in Paragould.

The memory isn't of the business, it failed. The memory is of a hectic driving schedule to Las Vegas and back. Terry was working at Sunbeam at the time. We had been married just over a year. We started out on Friday, December 4. We were going to start early in the day so we could have some leeway in our travel plans. However due to delays in producing the cart we were taking to the show we did not get underway until late afternoon. We spent the first night in Amarillo, TX. Our cart covering did not hold up well in the wind, so we had to stop in Oklahoma City and find a Sam's Club that had some heavy tarps and fasteners. We recovered the grill and had a secure package so off we went.

Our routine was to get up at 6 AM, have breakfast and be on the road by 7 AM. We would drive all day stopping for gas, food and an occasional break. We would stop someplace for dinner about 5 PM then drive till 10 PM and get a room. Up again at 6 and on the road. We made it to Vegas in three days pulling in to the Dunes Hotel late the afternoon of 7th. The convention ran Tuesday to Thursday evening then we packed up and repeated the driving schedule back to Arkansas.

The convention was a bust, although we met some nice people. I played golf at the Dunes and won a gym bag that I still use. I played 18 holes while Terry took a nap and piddled around the hotel. However, I was not ready for the sun and contracted a pretty bad sunburn on my arms and face. We had a banquet that night and attended that, but after it wrapped up I got a terrible headache and was sick. Terry and I were in bed by 8 PM. Being early risers I woke up at 3 AM and so did T. So we got up, got dressed and took a long walk along the strip.

There was not much foot traffic. I called to a duck swimming in a pool at one of the resorts and damn if it didn't come after us and followed Terry and I for some distance as the duck and I called softly back and forth.

We went into a McDonald's and were amazed at the cost of the food, and the fact that they had slot machines all over the place. We walked for perhaps two to three hours. Finally tired, full of coffee and ready for the day we came back to the Dunes and participated in the day's events.

I believe it was Friday morning when we left. We stopped at Hoover Dam and took pictures and walked around for about an hour. Then south to Kingman, AZ and picked up east I-40. As we approached Flagstaff, AZ we realized we were following a snow system. The desert had snow which made for a beautiful scene. We spent the night in Flagstaff and thoroughly enjoyed that experience. There are two high mountains just on the edge of Flagstaff and we drove by Northern Arizona University, which I now look out for on the football and basketball scores. It was really pretty, snow on the streets, pines covered with snow, and that crunch of frozen snow under foot.

The next day we were off early, still following the snow system. Driving was nice, we did not run into snow flurries, just the accumulation on the side of the road. I think the next night we spent in Tucumcari, NM which is the city my Dad and I stayed in when I got out of the army in 1971. I had mustered out in El Paso, TX in September of 1971 and my Dad had flown down to drive back with me as my wife and kids had flown home a couple of weeks earlier. I didn't get away from El Paso until later in the day so we got as far as Tucumcari and spent the night in a Best Western that had a special on suites for the price of a room.

Anyway, Terry and I stayed in Tucumcari and were on the road early the next morning. We made Amarillo, TX still following the snow storm and spent the night there. It was an easy drive home the next day and life returned to normal. But for a week, it was a fast paced trip with many miles put on the new truck I had. I had purchased a new Ford F-150 pick up truck in August, 1992 and in December we put a great deal of mileage on it. It is 2008 as I write this remembrance and that same truck is parked out in my driveway. It has been a good truck.

It was a tough trip, it was not successful. However, Terry and I saw land we probably never would've seen, nor will we probably ever see again. It was worth it.

802 West Superior - Christmas

The first 8 years of my life were spent in a home my Dad rented from Judge Nebel. It was a two story home that sits at 802 West Superior St. in Munising, MI. It is still there, and while it has been remodeled, the front looks pretty much the same.

There are three Christmas memories I vividly recall involving that home.

First: My sister Carol is the closest to me in age, she is 14 years older. When I was around 4 she went to college. The tradition at our home was we cut a wild tree. My Dad traveled our county quite often visiting customers and in late summer and fall he would scout the woods along the back routes he took for a possible tree. Then after Thanksgiving we would go out and snowshoe around the woods, examining trees, snow getting down your back when you shook off a tree, and eventually make our selection. The trees were typically balsam, if we could find them, they seemed to hold their needles a little longer. Part of getting the tree was to also bring some boughs back for other trimming needs.

At the back of the living room were stairs leading to the second floor. The stairs had a railing, but were open. So my Dad always ran a string of lights down the stairwell around the balusters. Then he would fasten boughs so the stairwell had pine boughs and lights all the way to the top. My sister Carol would then make snow. The artificial snow was made with Ivory Soap Flakes, sugar and water. She would beat the soap and sugar in a mixer to actually make a white concoction similar to whipped cream, only it wasn't edible. I learned that lesson. Then using a spatula she would ladle the snow on the pine boughs and the railing would have some ribbon bows spaced to give the stairwell a very festive look. It was nice climbing the stairs to the bedrooms when the lights were lit and the view from the stairwell looking out on the living room was magnificent. I remember the stairwell vividly.

Second: When I was about 5 I received a telegram from Santa. It was delivered by the Western Union deliveryman late on the afternoon of the 24th. It said, "Dear Tom stop, Am leaving the North Pole now stop. I will be coming to your home later tonight stop. Be good and have a Merry Christmas stop. Santa" Wow, a personal message from Santa. I wasn't the only one who lived A Christmas Story.

Third: My parents would sometimes go out to a Christmas Eve party, or the Bakkums or Gibson's might drop in and visit. Usually there were some late nights, but not for me, I had to go to bed and wait till morning. God that was rough. I would wonder what Santa would bring. I was excited about the whole season. We always had snow, and lots of snow for Christmas so the lights of homes decorated for Christmas always brought good cheer and happiness. Many times after Christmas Eve church services we would take a ride through town to look at the homes. We would see people gathering for festivities, families coming together, lights and cheer made for an exciting atmosphere for a young boy to be part of.

I would have to be in bed at some hour, I do not know the time. I do know that my folks stayed up some time after I was in bed. So, when I woke up at 3 or 4 in the morning ready to get at it, I was made to lay in bed while they snoozed some. I do not know what time we got up, but it seemed endless. Then, when my mother and father would finally start moving and waking the ritual of the tree lighting and bathroom took place. My dad would go use the bathroom, splash some water on his face and then go downstairs and turn on the tree lights. My mother would then have to go into the bathroom and perform whatever ablutions she performed, totally unnecessary and taking far too much time. Me, a quick pee and I was good to go.

Then down the stairs we would traipse, Dad in the lead, Mom then me. I am sure my eyes lit up with glee and avarice as I viewed the lights, the gifts that Santa had brought, and the array of presents. I recall getting the proverbial gas station with the little elevator that would lift cars to the second floor. It wouldn't last a month, but for a while it was wonderful.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Creation of a Memory

Years ago one of the names I had for my youngest daughter was Tootermoose. Over the years I've given her little mementos recalling my affectionate name for her. I don't know if she keeps them, if she does they are starting to amount to a moosey menagerie. Well, some years ago Tootermoose sent me a gift, a Christmas ceramic moose chef with a plate of cookies. It comes apart and you put an incense in a compartment. Once lit the incense emits smoke out a chimney that is part of the cookie tray. As a result you get the incense smell and it appears as if the plate of cookies is steaming hot. It is a pure Christmas memory.

I shot a video of the moose on its inaugural appearance for Christmas 2008. Every year for the years since Tootermoose gave us the chef it starts our Christmas season. It is the first decoration out of the box, and is lit right away to signal to us that the holiday season is at hand. It is good.

Enjoy the brief video.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

I Owe Lou a Million Dollars

I was thinking of times past today. I began to think about my brother Dean and his brother-in-law Louis Mikulich. Lou or Louie as we knew him was one of a number of children. Lou lived in Traunik, MI his hometown. The Mikulich family was well known in that area as his mother and father had owned and operated a general store and post office there for many years. Louie came from a talented family. My sister-in-law, Gladys or Miki as we knew her was an athlete of some prominence in high school. Several brothers played tennis in college and old man Mikulich had built an asphalt tennis court at his home for his children to play on.

Lou went to college and had a degree in some field like Botany or Biology. I'm not sure what the degree was in. He never worked in the field. When Mr. & Mrs. Mikulich passed away Lou took over the store and kept the property at Joe's Lake in good shape so family members could return to the U.P. for vacations and family gatherings. Lou eventually became post master and ran the store keeping an eye on the family holdings.

Lou was a gentle man, soft spoken and refined. He was well educated and stay current on the events of the day. He was aware and knew of the issues of the region, the state and the country. Louie smoked a pipe and was one of those people whose appearance a pipe enhanced. Lou loved to laugh and had a good sense of humor, however the image he projected was one of serious contemplation.

Whenever my brother was at Joe's Lake Lou paid a visit nightly to sit and discuss the events of the world, enjoy my brother Dean's company, or many times to go night fishing for bass on Joe's Lake. Joe's Lake was a beautiful body of water. About 2/3 of it was bounded by either state or Cleveland Cliffs land. There were cabins, but not too many. The lake was clean, sandy bottom with some silting as there was no flow through the lake. It harbored huge small mouth bass. Dean and Lou caught many bass and always released them, the fun was in the catching, not the eating.

Lou and Dean had agreed they would keep a bass weighing over 5 1/2 pounds and have it mounted to hang in the log cabin. Back in the depression Mr. Mikulich, senior, had a builder pay off a debt owed to his store by building a log cabin on a piece of property Mr. Mikulich had acquired on Joe's Lake. It was a simple cabin, however it was spectacular. It was made of huge northern pine logs, had a huge field stone fireplace, two very small bedrooms and sat on a hill over looking the lake. It was simply magnificent. This is where my brother spent his summers, and the land Lou watched over with benevolent grace.

I've been to that cabin many times. I stayed the night on occasion. I went night fishing with Lou and Dean and enjoyed the thrill of small mouth bass striking surface lures and startling the hell out of the fishermen. I've enjoyed the company of two intelligent, articulate men who enjoyed each others company as much as anyone could. They played golf in Gladstone many times and ate dinner together often. They loved one another deeply.

One time when I was very young I spent a week in Midland, MI at Dean's home. The weekend I was to return to Munising Lou showed up and offered to drive me back to the U.P. The plan was he would drive me to Traunik, the Mikulich home, and then I would call my Dad and he and mom would drive out to pick me up. My folks had given me some some money to pay my way, but Lou wouldn't hear of it. In fact, he ended up driving into Munising and taking me right to my home. I expressed my appreciation and told him that I owed him a Million Dollars. He chuckled and lit his pipe. He said that one day he would collect and drove back to Traunik.

Lou was a solitary figure much of the time and I could not help but wonder about the quality of his life. Lou seemed to enjoy good conversation, discussion of issues, and seemed to care deeply about the country and the environment. He was alone most of the time for Lou was a bachelor.

Through the years we would enjoy getting together when my brother was up north. We would enjoy a fire in the fireplace in that magnificent cabin and I would listen as Dean and Lou discussed and debated the issues surrounding the times. Over the years I stopped in several times at the store in Traunik to pay my respects and noticed Lou grow older, getting gray and a little stooped. He still smoked his pipe and was so gracious when you would meet. Wanted to know how you were, what you were doing, how the family was, my mother and father. He was an easy man to love.

I would remind him from time to time about the Million Dollars. He had forgotten. When I would retell the story he would chuckle and say that some day he might collect. Lou may have forgotten, but I never have. I will always remember that kind, gentle, pipe smoking man who loved life, loved my brother, and was a very good man. Lou got to know my father and mother-in-law as they were postmasters too. They would see each other at meetings held in various parts of the Upper Peninsula and talk about Alger County. It was through my in=laws that I learned of Lou's passing from cancer.

My brother died from a stroke in 1982, and I lost touch with Lou as the common meeting point no longer existed. However, I was sorry to hear of his passing, and wished I had been more outgoing or concerned and made contact with Lou. He was a very special man.

Friday, November 14, 2008

A Thanksgiving Tale

This story is true. but I cannot remember the exact year - probably in the mid 60’s. I think Bonnie and I were married, but it is not relevant.

Michigan's deer season had been in since Nov. 15, and Bonnie and I were in Shingleton, MI for Thanksgiving. I was also going to do some deer hunting and was truly looking forward to the experience.

Shingleton, MI is a small community of 5-600 located on M-28 just east of Munising. Munising is a small town, at the time perhaps 4500 - 5000 souls located on the northern side of the Upper Peninsula of Michigan on the shores of Lake Superior about 50 miles east of Marquette, MI. The distance from Munising to Shingleton is about 12 miles. South of Shingleton toward Manistique lie extensive hunting lands that many from the Lower Peninsula hunt for the elusive Michigan whitetail. This is remote hunting, swamps; bogs and uplands abound. While roads crisscross the area, they tend to be two rut roads that loosely follow the terrain and can be impassable at times.

Tom & Glady Dolaskie, my wife's parents, owned a general store at the cross road of M-28 and M-94. There was a Post Office in the store and Tom was the postmaster. However, Tom's background as an outdoors man is legend. He grew up in the logging camps that were located in the area and made his living for many years cutting logs for the timber industry. He hunted and fished the entire area and was as familiar with the surrounding countryside as you would be of your home.

We had all gone to bed after the usual evening of card games and much talk. Our plan was to rise early, breakfast and then go hunting north of Star Siding back in large swamp area that ran north to Lake Superior. Sometime after we had all fallen asleep we were roused by a knocking at the back door. It was perhaps 11:30 PM. The knocking did not stop. I heard Tom get up and go down the stairs. I could hear voices at the back door, but the location of the bedrooms did not permit me to overhear the conversation.

A few minutes later Tom came up the stairs and knocked on our bedroom door. He asked me to come downstairs. Of course by this time Bonnie and Glady were awake, so we all traipsed down the rickety old stairwell. There stood a man dripping wet and quite wound up. About that time I remembered being awakened by a freak thunderstorm that moved through the area just after we had gone to bed. I lay in bed listening to the crashing and booming and wondered what that would mean to the hunt the next morning. There was a good amount of snow on the ground, I wondered if it would all melt away. Of course, you just knew the woods would be sopping wet, and you were in for a muddy day of slogging trails.

The man and his hunting partner had camped south of Shingleton near a place called the Red something or other, I cannot recall. It was located in a very backwoods area that I had been to before, but it had been some time. Tom knew the area very well and knew from the description the man gave just where they were camping.

Glady called the ambulance service, and they would send an ambulance. I was to accompany the man back to their encampment and render what assistance I could. Being a young man and not trained in any first aid or CPR, I really had no idea what to do except to provide company. Tom would wait for the ambulance and accompany the driver to the campsite in the woods.

Munising has a small hospital, and the few doctors who service the area tend to be General Practitioners. The ambulance service is provided by the local funeral home, Bowerman-Halifax, and what serves as an ambulance is also a hearse. The vehicle was a gorgeous black Cadillac hearse with the small, tasteful sign of Bowerman-Hallifax funeral home on a bronze hood ornament.

The man, who by the way was from Kalamazoo, MI, and I drove to the campsite. Down a barely passable two rut road we bounced and arrived at one of those spacious canvas tents that have sidewalls. We found his partner, barely conscious, lying on a cot beside a small potbellied wood burning stove. Lightening had apparently hit a tree nearby. Searching for ground, it came down the tree, hit the metal stovepipe leading to the stove, and then grounded through the cot and the man leaving a gash in the earthen floor of the tent. The man was injured, had difficulty breathing, and seemed to be in great distress. We were able to cover him with a blanket and tried to keep him awake so he would not go into shock.

We had been at the campsite for perhaps fifteen minutes when we became aware of a vehicle approaching the camp. After the thunderstorm had passed through which was apparently the leading edge of a cold front, the temperature plummeted. It was now about zero, and the roads had become covered with "black ice". Driving out from Munising had been treacherous. But, here we were, trying to care for an injured man and what pulls into the campsite? You guessed it, a brand new, black, gorgeous Cadillac hearse driven by the funeral home director, Footsie Bowerman. Tom had guided him without fail, but the real surprise was when the backdoor opened out stepped Dr. Olson, one of the physicians who serviced the Munising area. When Tom had told Footsie that a hunter had been struck by lightening, Footsie called Doc Olson and Doc Olson told Footsie to pick him up on the way out of town. Together they slipped and slid out to Shingleton. Then joined by Tom they maneuvered their way to the campsite, and there sometime after midnight on a bitterly cold November night Dr. Olson, delivered by a hearse, treated the hunter from Kalamazoo.

The men from Kalamazoo were astounded. Only about 30 minutes had passed since the man had left with me in tow to return to the campsite. Yet in that 30 minute time frame an ambulance that is not on duty that late at night was summoned, a doctor was roused and picked up, 12 miles of icy road were traversed, then another 8 or so miles to the campsite and here we all were. The fellows from Kalamazoo said you couldn't even get that kind of service in a big city where they had round the clock services.

The man hit by lightening survived, but was never the same. He suffered heart damage, walked with a limp, never regained full motor control of his limbs, and lived the rest of his life on disability, unable to work. But before the two left the area, they came by the store to thank Tom & Glady for their help. His hunting partner returned to the UP many times hunting and fishing. He always stopped in the General Store and visited with Tom & Glady. Their conversations often returned to that stormy November night and the outstanding service and care that Footsie and Doc Olson provided. The man eventually grew older, retired and stopped coming to the UP some years ago. Tom & Glady retired and sold their store, and contact was lost. The memory is still etched in my mind, and I put it in this blog so others of my family may learn about the care, concern and service to others rendered to strangers in the cold night of the Northwoods.

The people who live in the Munising area of the Upper Peninsula have a unique spirit formed in part by the remote and rugged life of the area. While some may be amazed by the effort, those who live there would say, yep, just like Footsie and Doc Olson. Footsie has passed on. I do not know about Doc Olson except I know he retired some time ago. But the spirit that drove those men on that night still lives on in the residents of that country.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Halloween Then and Now

When I was a little kid in the 50's Halloween was a great time. I had this cowboy outfit that had two pistols, holsters and a hat. So it didn't take much with a small mask to render me unrecognizable, ha! I discovered this summer that our neighborhood really consisted of the 800 and 900 blocks of Superior Street. The 900 block was about as far west in Munising you could go. So it did not take long to cover those blocks and get a pretty good load of loot. However, being perhaps 6 or 7 I ventured into other blocks looking to load up good. I went past Lincoln School and was getting some distance from home. Was I worried, naw, with my pistols and hat I was invincible. I approached one home and knocked, a man came to the door and I pronounced the age old request, "Trick or Treat." The man made me come into the home and do a trick before I could get a treat. So I turned a cartwheel in his living room. There were other adults there enjoying the festivities and while I thought my task a little strange it was no big deal. I remember coming home with a paper bag with the fiber twist handles that was about 3/4 full of apples, caramels, a few candy bars, some change, and other treats. It was great.

Fast forward to Sturtevant, WI. The time was the latter part of the 70's. My children are 6 to 8 years old and it is Halloween. They have costumes. Their eyes sparkle in anticipation. The routine in the neighborhood is for Dad to escort the kids and Mom stays home and gives out candy, or vice versa. So out we go, me escorting beautiful angels, fairies or whatever the creature was. I stood back on the sidewalk as my two princesses went home to home collecting treats. We circled the block, we went through all of the blocks in the area and finally pleading fatigue we headed home. Time had changed some things. When I was a kid we just took all of the goodies as untainted. Now with stories of foreign objects put in apples, or unsealed items we sorted the loot first. We tossed apples and other fruit that was not in a sealed package. Not much got thrown out, so the kids had plenty of sweets for enjoying. We did that year after year for four or five years. I got such a kick out of my little ones full of enthusiasm running from house to house checking their bags and running home to show their mother their goods. They would sort their stuff, eat some of the candy and then collapse into bed. God, what a good time they had and what a joy they were.

Fast forward to 2000. Terry and I live in Jackson, MS. A new wife, a new life. My children are grown. Terry's kids are grown so now we are relegated to giving out the treats. Our next door neighbor has an audio/video studio and has rigged up lights and music outside of his house. Children running up to the home get almost to the porch when a light show comes on and the booming voice of Dracula comes out and music blares. Some little kids turn tail and run back to their parents. We have a pumpkin and our lights are on. We enjoy the little ones coming and yelling the age old "Trick or Treat" and opening their bags with enthusiasm. There are some older kids with no costumes running as fast as they can just gathering treats. I have a feeling they come from poorer families and perhaps are supplementing the treats the whole family may enjoy.

Fast forward to 2008. We live in a log cabin. We are at the very end of a private drive. It is dark up here, we have no outside lights such as yard lights. We do have lights that come on if something or one triggers the sensing device. We live back in the dark wooded area. No kids come. We are at peace. We eat the treats. No kid would dare come back here, it is just too dark and the house to creepy. We'll leave it that way.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

The 30/30 Feeling

I guess I was about 10-11 years old when this event took place. That would mean it was the early 1950's. There is a little community in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan called Rock. It sits on M=35 just north of Gladstone, MI. In the early 1950's community members formed a Lion's Club. My father was a member of the Lion's Club in Munising, just to the northeast of Rock and was a very active member.

Rock's Lion's club held a festival to help raise funds to develop some financial underpinning for the organization. So one Saturday my Mother, Father and I got in the family Ford and drove to Rock to take part in the festivities and support the fledgling club. It seemed as though my Dad always knew people someplace. It wasn't long before my Mother and Father were visiting with people, spending a little money on some games and had given me five dollars to try my hand at what games of chance I might enjoy.

My Dad always told me that whenever you see four Lion's together you'd always find a 5th. So I am sure there was a little imbibing going on. It was a good time. New territory, games of chance, small rides, and food. What more could you ask for in a small town.

I was deep into outdoor lore then. I had many magazines that extolled the excitement surrounding fishing and hunting expeditions. I read Outdoor Life, Field and Stream and other outdoor magazines with gusto. I could imagine being on a bear hunt in Alaska, prowling the swamps and hardwood forests of my native UP looking for the elusive whitetail. A shotgun in the crook of my arm as I ambled through the fall color hunting the startling Ruffed Grouse, known in my area as a partridge. My imagination flamed with the thrill of the hunt, the excitement of the kill and the reward of the fine food afterward.

As I walked through the throngs at the festival I happened by the stage area. There was the object of my dreams, a Winchester Model 94 Lever Action 30/30 rifle. It was first prize in a raffle. A raffle ticket cost $1. I still had $4 in my pocket so I bought four tickets. I than set out on a quest. I found empty pop bottles that I could turn in at food vendors for a nickel deposit refund. I scrounged and begged and tried all I could to come up with more money. I knew nothing about statistics and chance, I just knew that the more tickets I had the more opportunity I had to win that rifle. I invested heavily (emotionally) in that rifle. My Dad gave me some more money. I do not think he knew what I was doing with it. I feel like had he known he would not have been so generous because while he bought a raffle ticket or two he didn't see much future in the game as an investment or a sure thing.

By the time evening came and the stage show took place I had accumulated probably between 15 and 20 raffle tickets. I was absolutely sure I had more tickets in the raffle than anybody else. I had spent the day investing time, effort and emotion in collecting items to turn in, scrounging money and buying raffle tickets. I was dreaming of stalking whitetail deer in the swamps of Alger County. I pictured myself aiming the rifle, is spoke loudly and I was deadly accurate. My hunting knife was fastened at my belt, I had the traditional red plaid wool jacket and cap on, and the snow crunched under my boots as I came upon my kill. God, I could imagine that scene, it still excites me to this day. So I stood with my parents waiting for the drawing for the prizes sure that my name would be called when that Winchester Model 94 Lever Action 30/30 rifle was given away - to me!

There was the queen contest, the watermelon eating contest, gees my folks were making like we had to go. I persuaded them to stay till the drawing. I think they were beginning to see the level of importance this drawing had for me. Finally, it was dark, the park the festival was held in was lit with Christmas style lights and music played everywhere. The announcer intoned that the drawing for the raffle prizes would take place. I do not remember how many prizes were drawn for. I won none, and that was OK because I was going to win the rifle. The Winchester Model 94 Lever Action 30/30 rifle. When the person reached their hand into the drum to pull my winning ticket it seemed like the world stopped. A spot light came on and when my name was announced I would proudly walk to the platform, accept the rifle and receive the applause of many for my effort. Here it comes, the winning name, ME!

NOOOOO! It was someone else's name. Not mine, how could this be. I'm sure I had more tickets in the drum than anyone else. A mistake was made, but I knew there could be no redraw, no recount, no rifle, no Winchester Model 94 Lever Action 30/30 rifle. I was crushed. I couldn't show it. We turned and walked to the car. It was about an hour's drive home. I was in the backseat of the car with my dashed dreams of adventure and fun. I lay in bed that night working through my head what could've gone wrong. Maybe a few more empty pop bottles, maybe and another ticket, maybe, maybe, maybe.

I remember that feeling to this day. I remember wanting something so hard that it was a fervent prayer on my lips that needed answering. I remember the dreams and the desire so intense that it became the sole focus of my effort that day. I have had a few days in my life when I have had similar intensity in my wants. Not many, just a handful, perhaps less than 10. However I measure all similar situations against that one experience back in the 50's. I measure everything of similar intensity against what I call my 30/30 feeling.

As a postscript, on my sixteenth birthday my Dad and Mom gave me a Winchester Model 94 Lever Action 30/30 for Christmas. It was a thrill, I hunted with that gun and sometimes just took it and held it. It looked like the rifle used by Hopalong Cassidy, Roy Rogers, Lash-la-Ru, John Wayne, Gregory Peck and Jimmy Stewart. It didn't have as many shots, but it looked the same. It's weight felt solid and secure and I hunted with it a lot. I never killed anything, but it went to the woods with me just the same. In 1966 my Winchester Model 94 Lever Action 30/30 was in a storage unit in an apartment in Milwaukee where my parents lived along with some other firearms I owned. It was stolen.

I have never replaced it. However, my Winchester Model 94 Lever Action 30/30 remains the gun of my dreams and I use that experience to measure all intense emotion I experience. I have thought about buying another, but I just don't think it would be the same. I have thought about going to gun shows and finding an older model and purchasing that. That idea has appeal to me, but it is not "the" gun. I do remember exactly, however, the 30/30 feeling.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

A Recent Memory Made

This week, October 6-10, 2008 my wife Terry has been on vacation. She has had a pleasant week at home pretty much tackling chores she wants tackled. One of the chores has been the processing of apples. she has made four batches of apple butter which we packed into pint glass jars and processed through a water bath on Saturday. She was at chores all day Saturday ending in the evening with her cutting my hair. Finally we settled down for the evening. I took a quick shower to get rid of the aftermath of the haircut and she took a quick shower to freshen up and feel decent.

I roasted 18 of our fresh chestnuts from our trees. Wisconsin was playing Penn State on TV and she does not make a fuss when I watch college football as she knows I dearly love that sport. As I was sitting in my usual chair at my computer watching the game she came into the room after her shower in her pj's and sat in her favorite easy chair. Our dog Cilia was dutifully picked up and place in her usual position next to Terry. So here we sat, a small family in Arkansas with me enjoying my Big 10 game.

I glanced over at Terry and she had the recliner fully extended. In one hand was a magazine with recipes, next to her was Cilia and she was munching on one of our favorite seasonal snacks, fresh roasted chestnuts. I never said anything, I just watched her sitting there studying the recipes, slowly munching chestnuts. She was truly at peace and looked so comfortable. It was one of those scenes that makes sense of why we work so hard to provide for ourselves and our loved ones. The only other thing that would've been more traditional would've been to have a fire in the fireplace. However it was still about 80 degrees and we don't have a fireplace. The memory is burned into my long-term memory and it made for a fitting end to a pleasant week of vacation.

Remembering a Lip Warmer

It seems hard to forget but July 1969 I left the United States for a 13 month tour in Korea. It was called a hardship tour because family was not allowed to come along. Why couldn't it have been Germany, or some other place in the world where my wife and daughter would have had the experience of living overseas. Besides, my wife spoke German. Regardless the 13 months are etched in my mind with scenes of Korean life, way too much drinking, carousing, and friendships that did not last but were very important at the time.

It was while I was in Korea that I decided to grow a mustache, lip warmer, cookie duster, and crumb retention unit. I had that mustache until 2004.

Terry and I were sitting on the porch about 7 AM drinking coffee enjoying the cool morning air and the hint of the clear sunny day we should experience. We have a book called "The Book of Roses." It is a book we bought years ago when our flower beds were filled with rose bushes and we were into tending them. The book has activities associated with growing roses divided by months of the year. Terry in her own way has made the book into a little record of events that have occurred over the years. For example, when the Hummingbirds first show up in the spring is recorded. When we harvested our first chestnuts. There are no pages made for notes so her comments tend to be written at the head of a chapter or in the margins. Over the years when something happens of interest in nature or around the yard either of us will make an entry in the book. It does not contain too many entries but it is the kind of book that our children might come across when they clean up our estate after we are gone and become a personal memento of our time in this home.

Terry got the book out while were were sitting on the porch because it is about this time of year we take in the Hummingbird feeders and we were wondering if we had made note of the time of year they left in the book. We had not, only their arrival. However as we sat there drinking coffee Terry looked through the book and found an old Dear Abby article about things you mother taught you. It was tongue in cheek and humorous and we enjoyed it as she read the article. Then she came across a poem that my brother-in-law Chap had written. A short paragraph at the end of the poem mentioned he was saddened by the demise of my lip warmer. The note was sent in 2004. Terry and I remarked that it seemed a lot longer ago that I had shaved my mustache off. But it had been only four years. I began to think back, my children never knew my until they were in their 30's without a mustache. I wore that "cookie duster" for 35 years. I recall I debated with myself for several years about shaving it off. I always felt it looked a little unkempt and it had grown so white I thought it made me look older than I am. Shaving it off did not apparently help that. Anyway it is gone. I wore a mustache for over half of my life. I'm glad it is gone. I feel better without feeling that hair on my lip. It is amazing though how attached we can become to some thing.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

A Sheboygan Marsh Adventure

From 1982 through 1987 I lived in Sheboygan Falls, WI. West of Sheboygan is an area known locally as the Kettle Moraine area that has many geological formations created by glaciation. One area that I spent some time at was the Sheboygan Marsh. It is a wildlife area and abounds with pristine marshland, excellent canoeing and some interesting hunting opportunities.

One of my favorite upland game birds is the Ruffed Grouse also known by locals in Munising, MI, my hometown, as the partridge or pat. I have hunted Ruffed Grouse in Sheboygan marsh with a friend and we had chased up a few, but they are sparse. That's OK, it is more about being out in the wild than the taking of game.

One winter day I decided to take my Golden Retriever Captain and go see if we couldn't chase some grouse for a few hours. It was in January as Grouse season stayed open until sometime in mid-January or the first of February. Regardless, we were into a good old Wisconsin winter. Snow lay on the ground and the temperature hovered around 18 degrees Fahrenheit. I was dressed with layers of clothing and what I know as snow pac boots which are a combination of leather and rubber with a felt insert for insulation.

Captain and I parked on a country road that bordered the swamp and walked a trail frequented by snowmobiles to get back into the swamp area. The snow was not deep, inches only. Captain and I got off the trail and started walking some woods and channels. I say channels because apparently back in the 1920's large dredges were brought in and an attempt to drain the swamp was attempted. Obviously it didn't work but you can get a flavor of what the intention was. All around the swamp area are neat Wisconsin dairy farms and field filled with corn and pasture land. As a result of the dredging attempt the marsh is crisscrossed by channels created by the dredging attempt.

I found it easier to prowl the channels because the snow in the marsh was deeper and the swamp grass made for difficult walking. I noticed black spots on the ice but did not pay them any attention. Captain and I were enjoying being together, the weather was cold but clear and the marsh land was gorgeous in its winter coat.

I was walking with my shotgun cradled in my arms enjoying the sting of the cold air and the crunch of my boots on the crusted ice. As Captain and I walked down one channel I noticed one of the black spots nearby and had to cross it to get to the bank of the marsh. As I moved across the ice a huge cracking sound reverberated in the winter air and the ice disappeared beneath my feet. I went straight down into the water. The only thing that kept me from being immersed was I leaned forward as I fell and with my gun acting as a cross piece I caught myself on the ice at chest level. From my waist down I was in the water and I did not feel any bottom.

Stunned by the sudden collapse of the ice I lay there a few seconds trying to analyze my situation. Captain had been thirty or forty feet in front of my when I went down and I looked directly at him. He immediately turned and started back toward me. I realized from the look in his eye that he was coming to save me. I do not know what he would've done but I immediately had a sense that his weight might be enough to further break the ice and we'd both be in the drink. At least half my body was out of the water, if I went in fully I was afraid the weight of my clothing would make my chances at getting out a real struggle. So, I called "Captain, Stop." I had to repeat the command several times and Captain finally stopped about ten feet away.

I kicked my feet, I could move but I was afraid to move too much of my upper body as I didn't know how thick the ice was under my chest area. I kicked my feet, rolled from side to side and the ice held. Captain stood ready to help. After repeated tries, rolling gently from side to side I began to inch myself out further and further on the ice. Finally after what seemed to be many minutes but was probably 90 seconds or so I was able to crawl up on the ice. At that point Captain came forward and checked me out. I used his neck to brace myself to stand up. Thank God for a powerful dog.

It was then that I remembered what the black spots on the ice were. The channels had been dredged 60 years earlier. The channels had silted in as the slow moving water brought silt downstream. Because the water was slow moving the silt settled slowly and did not compact. This happens a lot in northern lakes and slow water areas and the silt can be very deep. We home boys call it "loon shit." Deer traversing the swamp would use the channels as crossing areas. One reason the swamp could not be drained 60 years earlier was the area was populated by numerous springs. As ice formed the thickness of the ice would be much thinner over a spring due to the movement of water in that local area. Deer would fall through thin ice, and the "loon shit" would cling to their legs as they thrashed there way out of the water leaving a dark stain on the ice. I should've known.

Captain and I began walking back to the station wagon I was driving. I was wet through to the skin from the waist down. It was 18 degrees. We had about a 30 minute walk back to the car. As I walked I began to realize that my pants were freezing. My body was warm as the layered clothing I had on retained my body heat. I would be OK for some time from the cold, but my heavy canvas insulated coveralls freezing stiff were becoming more and more of a problem. A snowmobile went by, the driver was unaware I was in trouble and waved as he passed. I didn't realize I was in trouble so I didn't flag him down. On Captain and I went, both now quite tired from the emotional stress of the dunking.

Finally we got to the car. One of the first things I had to do was get my keys out. My pocket was frozen shut. I used my fingers and dug through the frost until finally after several minutes I could extract the car keys. My fingers were stiff and operated very slow. I got the car door open but I couldn't bend my knees to get in the car. I couldn't bend to get in the car. What the hell! Finally I leaned forward, caught the edge of the roof and leaned into the car. I fell forward so I was laying on the front seat. Then I could get the keys in the ignition and start the car. I turned the heater on full, and had to lay there for about 20 minutes until my coveralls thawed. I then took off my coveralls and was able to drive home in my long underwear. I was not worse for the experience, but I was so impressed with Captain.

I do believe that if I had let Captain come to me he would've grabbed my coat with his mouth and helped pull me out. He was a loyal and loving friend.

Friday, September 26, 2008

The Summer of 63 & Bear Hunting

I was fortunate and got a summer job at our local paper mill in Munising, MI during the summer of 1963. My best friend Joe Hase was similarly employed. Late in the summer Joe and I decided we would enjoy trying our hand at hunting bear. Black bear season opened in the late summer and we had a few weeks we could hunt before going back to school.

I consulted my girlfriend's father who was quite an outdoors man and any advice he could provide would be valuable. He told me of some areas bears might browse and told me that bears like apples in the fall of the year. Baiting an area with apples might induce a bear to frequent our bait. Joe and I traveled the countryside finding wild apples and chose an area north of the Carmody Road. Each evening before work we would take some apples and head to our bait site and check it out. Sure enough after a while a bear did start feeding on the apples because we could see bear scat and evidence of disturbance in the pile of apples.

When bear season opened we had dreams of bagging a big one. Now, what the hell we would've done with one is another question. My Mother and Dad ate fish but wild game was not a fare at our table. I wouldn't know how to dress a bear. Joe's situation was a little better off, his family did some hunting and perhaps they might take some bear meat, but I'm sure my mother would not have. Those thoughts did not surface in our consciousness.

The problem Joe and I had was we were working mostly the midnight shift and the only time we could really hunt the area was evening hours. We did not get off work until 7:00 AM and it was really too late by the time we got to the bait sight. Bears tend to be nocturnal and work interrupted our ability to bear at the bait during prime time opportunity. Nonetheless we would carry our guns in our cars, and dutifully head out to the bait area to check it out.

Joe got caught up in spending time with his girlfriend and soon was missing some of the excursions. This led to the incidence I want to relate. One evening before work I had driven out to the baited area, parked and prepared to hunt the area. I had a Winchester Model 94 Lever action 30/30. The gun would hold about six or eight rounds and was a sturdy gun that felt good in my hands.

As I walked the small two rut dirt road peering into the cover one could dream about the opportunity of a large black bear coming out onto the road and presenting me with a shot. Of course your mind could also envision an enraged black bear charging out of the brush intent on attacking and devouring me as it stored fat for the winter. When you are young, by yourself in the woods, and have a flamboyant imagination as I have that is where your mind tends to settle.

Dusk now began to close in. In the dimming light objects that are immovable become animated. Stumps begin to look like critters. You stand and look, did that object move, naw, its a stump, no by God it moved. Closer examination reveals a stump crouched down partially obscured by a hillock mimicking the appearance of a black bear about to pounce. Of course those sites and sounds heighten your excitement and your mind can really create all kinds of scenes you may not want to participate in.

All of a sudden three shots rang out. They were close by. In the distance I heard a voice drift through the hardwoods, "He's heading north." I am north! Holy Shit! The two rut road I was on ran mostly east/west and was fairly straight in the section I was on. So of course, my mind now has this wounded, enraged bear madly careening through the brush trying to escape its antagonists. It is ready to maul and kill any other potential assailant it runs into. Holy Shit!

As I crept along, finger on the safety, hair on my neck on end, every nerve quivering with fear and excitement I was poised to make my play. Annoyingly a thought kept intruding into my concentration that I was all alone. What the hell would I do if the bear came at me and I didn't kill it first? Holy Shit!

These thoughts grow in intensity at times like this. Your eyesight narrows and focuses on movement. Your become oblivious to things around you except for what you anticipate to be the source of the bear attack.

As I slowly, so slowly eased down the road about ten feet away, to my left and behind me a partridge flushed. Now a partridge in my home area is not truly a partridge, but a ruffed grouse. Their stubby powerful wings make a noise that will cause an experienced hunter to flinch even when they are hunting the bird and expect a flush. I was expecting a bear, not a bird. I cannot adequately describe the onset of anxiety, fear, and downright panic that took hold of me when that partridge flushed just behind me. Holy Shit!

As soon as I was able to calm down I jacked all of my shells out of the rifle, walked back to the car and got the hell out of the woods. I would like to tell you that Joe and I were successful that year, but we were not. I've never killed a bear and now have no desire to do so. I did learn fear that day, I also learned that I was able to function in that environment. However, I also learned that I can be humbled by a bird that weighs nor more than a pound or two. I will never forget that incident as long as I live.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Another Old Floria Word Game

My Dad (Vern Floria) enjoyed twisting or playing with words and sentences. From time to time he would walk around the house and mutter the following little poem.

The shades of night were falling slow
The old man slipped and fell in a hole.

Or, if there were no women around you might hear:

The shades of night were falling slow,
The old man fell on his asshole.

Or, you might hear:

The shades of night were falling fast
The old man slipped and fell on the grass.

Or, if there were no women around you might hear:

The shades of night were falling fast,
The old man slipped and fell on his ass.

Just a poem he apparently made up, at least I've not heard it any place else.

Thursday, September 11, 2008

You're Never Too Old to Borrow Money

My father retired from a full-time job in 1987 at age 85. He worked as a dishwasher in a private tennis club in Milwaukee. When he retired he moved back to our hometown of Munising, MI. He took an apartment in the Windjammer Apartments. In 1988 his car gave out and he went to the Marquette area to purchase a newer model car. I had never thought about a person buying a car at his age, he was now 88. However, the old man toddled on up to Ispheming and made a deal. I do not remember how old the car was he bought, not too old. It was a large Ford or Mercury. He took out a loan to buy the car and the payoff period was 48 months, 4 years.

I was amazed. He and I joked about this event. I told him he was the ultimate optimist, because he would be 92 when he paid the car off. You know what, he did! He paid the car off when he was 92 and enjoyed the use of that car for all the years he had it. Mostly he ran errands with it and went down to The Navigator restaurant each morning to meet with some cronies and have coffee. I found it difficult to imagine that a person would buy a car and take on debt at his age. I found it equally difficult to imagine a bank loaning an 88 year old man money to buy a car with a 48 month payout period. Will wonders ever cease to amaze!

Monday, August 4, 2008

Different Values

During my annual trip back to Michigan my Sister and I were visiting as we often do. During the course of the conversation she made the statement that my Father never wanted to own a home. He did not want to be bothered with taxes and insurance. I do not know about the responsibility of owning a home for the places we rented he shoveled snow, mowed grass and hung storm windows. I don't know what factors would have lead him to not wanting to own a home.

As a result he never did own a home. It is interesting that he had those values. He became a banker. He eventually left banking and owned his own business in Insurance and Real Estate. I cannot imagine he wasn't exposed to the idea that you built wealth through the acquisition of property. I do not know when you could deduct mortgage interest or taxes from your income tax bill. However, Dad predated income tax, so perhaps there was not the same advantage to owning property as there is now.

I think in later years he wished he had owned a home. I think he regretted having to downsize in living as he began to lose his business. I know that when I was first cognizant of living in a dwelling we lived at 812 W. Superior St. Munising, MI and it was a home. Then we moved to an upstairs apartment which had two small bedrooms, a kitchen, bath and living room. Then we moved in my senior year to a smaller upstairs apartment where we had one bedroom, a large closet served as my bedroom, and a kitchen, dining area, and living room. The bath was shared with the renter's son.

So where did those values come from, not wanting to buy or own a home? I don't know, but my Dad possessed those values and I don't.

Sunday, July 27, 2008


Rosie the Cockateil:

Rosie joined our household several years ago. Previous owners did not pay much attention to her and we got here through a friend. The morning I asked Terry if we wanted a bird I hardly had the question our of my mouth and Terry almost shouted we'll take her.

Rosie had a problem beak. The upper beak extended over the bottom beak which is not natural. In the end I believe it is what caused Rosie's demise. She could no longer feed herself and that ended her life.

The important thing is Rosie's life. She had a large cage. We left the door open when we were here and she was free to move about as she wished. She did not fly well, the previous owners had clipped both flight feathers and tail feathers. Eventually they grew out, but she never did succeed at flying. Each attempt was iffy. Sometimes she landed, sometimes she crashed, but her flights were most often an adventure because you didn't know where she would end up.

She was a very standoffish bird. Rosie was not accustomed to being handled, therefore didn't tolerate our handling her very much. From time to time she would perch on our shoulder or sit on a hand, but petting her was out of the question.

Still we grew to love her and took her into our family. We cared for her, she got a big cage, good food and we spend time talking to her and loving her as much as she would allow.

The last few days of her life she became a lover. She flew to us, she nestled, curled in Terry's hand to sleep. She tried to eat, desperately. In the end I think she gave in and just wanted to be held. Last night she sat on Terry's lap, curled in her hand, snuggled and wanted to sit on our dog Cilia. (I'm having a hard time writing this section) She would get on your shoulder, lean her head against your neck and go to sleep.

This morning when Terry uncovered the cage she was sitting in the bottom with her head tucked under her wing. That was unusual for she never slept on the bottom of her cage but always on a perch or the plastic tray nest she had adopted. She never moved again. About 9:30 Terry looked in the cage and said Rosie is lying down, I think she is dead. I picked her up, she was gone.

My mind is filled with all kinds of poignant images of her last days. Was she pleading for help, was she saying good bye? I don't know but right now I am greatly disturbed by the thought, should we have taken her to a vet? It is too late now.

Enough of the morbidity. I never thought I would like a bird. My daughter Jenny had one and I had a hard time with its noise. Rosie's behavior was different. She would run across the bottom of her cage at night telling you that she wanted to go to bed. If I approached her cage and told her to get up there she would climb to a perch and wait until I covered the cage. She would be quiet all night long, except for one night when Al the cat sat by her cage. I grew to love her and find myself weeping over a bird.

She responded vigorously to the alarm calls of Blue Jays. That was a little annoying at times, now I wish she would call out again. Terry has her cage covered until she can work up the nerve to clean it. I sit here wishing she would peep.

I buried her alongside my first Golden Retriever Captain. They were both good pets and maybe in death they will be good to one another. I know this about Captain, he will take good care of her.

Well, Rosie the Cockateil we shall miss you. You really had a good impact on our lives. I wish we had done more for you, but you were loved.

Friday, July 25, 2008

Sport Fishing On Lake Superior: A Kids Memory

A family friend had a small cabin cruiser that was also used as a sport fishing boat. I do not remember their names. I was perhaps 8 years old at the time. The volunteered to take me out fishing one summer day on Lake Superior. Downriggers had not been invented yet and the technique for the old time sport fishermen were to use out riggers. These were long poles that when laid out horizontally reach out from the boat some 20 to 25 feet. You took your line with a silver spoon lure and place the lure in the water and let out about 50 feet of line. Then a beer bottle weight was attached to the line. A beer bottle weight was an old beer bottle was filled with lead and a screw eye was allowed to set in the molten lead. When the lead cooled you broke the glass and had a heavy lead with in the shape of a beer bottle.

So you clipped the beer bottle weight to the line about 50 feet up from the lure then let the line play out from the reel. Now the fishing reel was one of those gigantic deep sea type you see in the fishing films. Sometimes as much as 500 feet was let out.

Releasing the outrigger pole you swung it so it became parallel to the boat and clipped your line to a snap at the end of the pole. Now when the pole was set perpendicular to the boat your linewas in effect about 25 feet away from the boat and the lure then tended to be to the side of the boat instead of directly behind.

Now, sit and wait. When one of those huge Lake Trout struck the lure the outrigger would help set the hook and when the fish fought the pole it would snap the line out of the clip on the outrigger and you then fought the fish mano-e-mano back to the boat.

This means you had to reel in 500 feet of line that had a fish on it, a bottle weight that probably weighed six or seven pounds, the weight of the steel core line and the pressure of the water on the whole mess. Whew!

After trolling around much of the afternoon and allowing me to have the thrill of steering the boat it came time to head for home. So I took up the line after the captain had released the line from the outriggers. As I brought one line it became very apparent that the weight was quite a bit heavier than the other rod I had brought in a few minutes earlier. Sure enough there was a Lake Trout on the line. One that weighed perhaps 4 pounds. Guess what, the bottle weight out weighed the fish. He wasn't big enough to trip the release on the outrigger so we dragged him around until he was dead. Some sport!

I took him home and my Mother made a wonderful broiled Lake Trout dinner. However I was scarred. The whole experience just seemed a little unfair. The excitement of the catch just didn't feel the same as even catching the Jumbo Lake Superior Perch I caught down at the Grand Island landing.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

A Little Humor From the Past

This should be kind of inclusive of humorous events that come to mind from our family history. Recently a few short memories have been popping up so I thought I get them down, just in case someone else in the family has my strange, earthy sense of humor.

When I was perhaps 10 or 11 years old I went on a smelt dipping excursion with someone. I don't remember who now. We were successful and I was given a bucket about half filled with smelt to bring home. We lived at 820 West Superior St. in Munising, MI. Being young, tired from the excitement and it was after dark I was in no mood to clean the fish. Mom & Dad were out, so with no other options I ran cold water into the bathtub and dumped the fish in. I reasoned that they would certainly last till morning and perhaps Mom would help me clean them.

Morning came, and along with it came a squeal of concern from my Mother. She called me into the bathroom and I discovered all of the smelt, some 50 or 60 floating belly up in the water. That wasn't too bad. What was really bad is in their last desperate act of procreation they spawned in the bathtub. Fish eggs have a natural glue to adhere to rocks on the stream bed so the fish can come to term, ingest the yolk sac in the egg and then swim on their way. The texture of the bathtub was that of coarse sand paper. It took me much of the day and the better part of a Ajax powder can to get the eggs off the tub. Needless to say, my Mother had to suffer the indignity of bathing in a fishes spawn bed.

Another time:

We had company in the small apartment at 820 W. Superior. My mother was sitting on a couch in the living room participating in the conversation. She became very engrossed in the conversation and realized she had to go to the bathroom. I was sitting on the floor listening to the adult talk, enjoying being part of the scene. My mother left, went into the bathroom, came out and resumed her place on the couch. In a few minutes, I happened to look up and she was "jiggling." My mother was a heavy woman and jiggled when she laughed. Only once or twice did I ever hear her cut loose, most of the time she seemed to snicker and jiggle. Well here she was jiggling, so tickled that she could not talk for a period of time. Finally she managed to say, she had to go to the bathroom, but was so engrossed in the conversation that she had gotten up, gone into the bathroom, sat on the commode, flushed, got up wash her hands, but had forgotten the most important part. She forgot to go potty.

Another time:

My mother was a heavy woman. She wore a girdle. One morning I heard my Dad loudly proclaim that he had gone to bed the night before with his wife, but had awakened next to a horse. After all, there was a horse collar in there. Whereupon he proceeded to march around the living room with my Mother's rolled down girdle around his neck, somewhat resembling a horse collar. We all laughed, but Mom got after the old man for embarrassing her like that.

Another time:

I was in my bedroom in our apartment at 820 W. Superior St. My parents were home and it was just a day where everyone was kind of doing their own thing. I don't recall what I was doing, however my revere was broken by three distinct sounds kind of like a person clapping their hand loudly three times. Very distinct noise. I came out into the living room to see what the hell had happened. There stood my Mother, "jiggling" again. She was really tickled because she was standing and had her legs crossed to stop from having an accident. Well, here I am asking what was that, what made that noise? I do not remember how the story came out, but the fact is my Mother was a very heavy woman who wore a girdle. Well, in the privacy of her home she was encountering a gas problem and had to pass some gas, or "break wind." When she did, apparently the girdle was under a lot of stress and held the cheeks of her behind so tightly that instead of her breaking wind in a normal fashion it resulted in three separate and distinct explosions sounding a lot like someone clapping their hand. My poor Mother.

Just some examples of life at the Floria's in the mid-50's.

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Recent events stir old memories

My Uncle Hollis passed away this last February. He was the last of that generation of family members for the Floria/Dean clan. The remaining family members are the 1st Cousins. To honor my Aunt Ann and Uncle Hollis a memorial was held in Traverse City on July 12, 2008. In addition to honoring the passing of Ann & Hollis the memorial was extended to cover all of the family members associated with the Dean's and seeing my Mother was the oldest of the Dean children I was invited to attend. My two sisters Carol and Phyllis were unable to attend.

Everyone looked the same, just older. The last time this group had gotten together was at my Cousin Deanne's home near Fountain, MI in 1982. It had been 26 years since I'd seen several of my cousins.

The memories were still alive and active. Living in Munising, MI I was not as close to the group in Traverse City so I did not see them very often. However, they were up in Munising numerous times, and I did visit Traverse City several times and have some memories of those visits.

My Cousin Art is about my age. I recall one summer I stayed with my Aunt Gertrude and Uncle Art for a week when they had a home on the shores of Grand Traverse Bay. Uncle Art had a small canal dredged into his property so he could keep a small rowboat accessible without having the try to maintain a dock. The summer I spent a week there Cousin Art and I made good use of that little boat.

Two activities stick in my mind, almost literally. The first was Art and I would row out from shore until we were in 10 feet of water or so and toss golf balls overboard. We would dive down to the bottom to retrieve them. This was no easy task as the bottom consisted of huge boulders that made the bottom rough and uneven. Sometimes the golf balls would get into cracks and crevices that made retrieval difficult. Nonetheless, as young adventurers we were successful most of the time.

The second memory prompted the statement about sticking in my mind. Art had a bow and arrow set for target practice. We took that bow and arrow set out with us on several occasions and would shoot the arrow into the air trying to get it to land as close to the boat as possible. The arrow traveled in almost slow motion. How high it went is anybody's guess, but given the bow was an old fashioned long bow and not too high in poundage the arrow probably went 70 to 80 feet in the air. You could follow the arrow in its trajectory. It would slow down, hit the apex of its flight and then turn over and start back to earth, or in this case water. Sometimes we got the arrow so close that when it went into the water and popped back up you could grab it out of the air. So we spent many an hour shooting that arrow into the air, never dreaming it might come back down in the boat.

Sure enough on one occasion one of us shot the arrow and we watched its flight soar high against the aqua blue Michigan sky. Slowly the arrow succumbed to gravity, slowed to a stop, started to fall backward, the flocking caught the wind and turn the arrow over so the blunt target point was now aimed in the down position. On the arrow came accelerating as the gravity that had slowed its upward flight now brought the arrow back to our spot. OUR SPOT! Holy Shit! Art was at one end of the boat and I at the other, as it became apparent the arrow was heading for us and we were ground zero we bailed. My head came back up out of the water in time to hear the arrow hit in the bottom of the aluminum boat with a resounding THUNK! It did dimple the bottom, thank God it didn't punch a hole in the boat, we would've been in deep trouble.

Needless to say the bow and arrow went back to shore and was used to shoot into a bale of hay. We resumed our ball retrieval exercise and kept our mouths shut. Art does not remember that incident, but I have recalled it several times. It is a good example how two kids can take a routine play exercise and turn it into an adventure. I will always treasure that memory.

A Remarkable Meeting


Last year I Goggled the name Floria. Through some digging and a letter I talked with a Kevin Floria on the phone. We apparently have some common ancestry. This summer I made arrangements to meet with he and his family in a little UP community called Engadine. I know from past discussions with my father that he had an Uncle Art Floria living in Engadine, but I never met the man. It turns out, that Art had a brother Charles and these men would've been brothers to my grandfather Burt Floria. Charles had a son Charles who married a woman named Arlene and she is the mother of Kevin Floria.

Saturday, July 5, 2008 I drove to Engadine and met Kevin and his brother Rick Floria, and the mother Arlene. I also met Kevin's wife, Janice and Rick's wife Barbera. We gathered around the dining room table in the family vacation home in Engadine located just across the street from Millecoquins Lake just east of Engadine.

We did trace our ancestry back to a common thread named Joe Flory. It seems old Joe was a bit of a rounder. He had a family in Ohio, probably near Toledo, and abandoned that family and moved to Mecosta County, MI. Joe married a lady named Eva Bancroft and had eight children with her. These children include Burt, my grandfather, Art the Uncle in Engadine and Charles, grandfather to Kevin and Rick. Upon moving from Ohio to Michigan Joe Flory changed his name to Floria. Joe Floria eventually left his family in Michigan and moved to Oregon where he apparently started another family. Joe died, or committed suicide on a train heading east to visit. Where he his buried is not known.

Kevin and Rick have two other brothers and a sister. Kevin and Rick live in the Lansing area, one brother lives in Chicago and another in Cheboygan, MI. They love the outdoors, hunt deer, fish and hunt ducks. They were a fun group to meet and we were together for perhaps two hours. Nice folks and a chance meeting that was very enjoyable.

Monday, June 30, 2008

A Worthwhile Scene

I have worked hard during my life time. I have put in long hours, been responsible for large organizations and projects. I have not gotten rich, but in the scheme of things would be considered fairly well off. From time to time I think about the effort and what makes that effort worthwhile. Well, yesterday a scene brought home the lesson of worth again.

I was mowing the grass at our home in Arkansas. Terry and I have worked quite hard keeping our property looking clean and neat. As I was in the section of the lawn on the east side Terry and her beloved Grandson Sam strolled down to the garden where we've planted some blueberry bushes. The bushes are new this year, but had some berries on them when we purchased the plants in the spring. We've enjoyed some berries in our breakfast cereal over the past few weeks. Sam and Terry stopped and pick a small plate they had brought with them and had a few blueberries on the plate. Then as I kept on mowing, they strolled across the yard to the black berry stand and proceeded to harvest perhaps a pint of fresh black berries. All the while talking and carrying on some conversation that takes place between grand parent and grand son.

As I watched the scene unfold in front of me I thought about the hard work I've done and the effort we make and this is just another example of why we do that. The scene of Terry, obviously enjoying her grandson's company and strolling about our property picking blue berries and black berries will join those events that occur from time to time that remind me that our effort is worthwhile.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Today's Link to the Past

We seem to be facing difficult times. The price of gas has risen to $4.00 a gallon. Yet I drive approximately 400 miles a week for work and have kept on going. Thoughts of alternate methods to conserve are entering my mind. My wife and I recently examined ads for an all electric car to get around our home town. It is odd, we are on the verge of paying off our home which will free up a great deal of cash to invest or make home improvements. Prices are rising, the stock market is tumbling, the world is chaotic, the Republicans and the Democrats are beginning the throes of the Presidential election heartache, yet I find life good.

It does make me remember some of the things I have gone through with others and think about times long ago. August 21, 1965 Bonnie (my first wife) and I married in Munising, MI. Bonnie had graduated from Albion College with a degree in education and a major in German. My parents could no longer afford to send me to Albion, I had gotten myself into a credit predicament that could cost me another semester to graduate, plus my parents moved to Wisconsin so I became a Wisconsin resident.

Bonnie and I made plans to get married the summer of 1965 and decided that I could transfer to the University of Wisconsin and she could get a job in Madison as a school teacher. Good plan, I'd finished my schooling, she'd support the effort then I'd find a job and we'd set off down life's path without much of an idea of what would take place, but hell, we were young.

Well, I was working in Milwaukee that summer on the Chicago & Northwestern RR. I took some time before the wedding to go to Madison and find us a place to live. I found a nice one bedroom furnished apartment on the south side of Madison just off Park Street. I was through Madison once some years ago and drove by the area, it had changed so dramatically that I was just about lost, but I did find the apartment complex and it still existed. Anyway, the apartment complex had a pool, was full of students, and seemed like the right place. I made the down payment and the rent would be $135.50 per month. No sweat, surely a teacher makes more than that. I hadn't thought up the original idea of investigating things yet.

Well, Bonnie and married, set off for Madison, and with school starting, not knowing teachers search a job out the year before, we embarked on this journey. The first thing we found out is Madison is full of educators, teachers are coming out of the walls. There were a lot of graduate students who had married, their spouses were teachers and any hope of finding a job teaching for Bonnie disappeared in the first few days of searching. It rapidly boiled down to finding a job. We had a few hundred dollars between us, no great savings, no income and a lease.

Bonnie finally found a job at Sear's as a credit analyst. In other words, she searched credit applications for approval. She brought home $56.36 a week in wages. If you take that times four she made roughly $230 a months. Take out rent and we had a net income of $94.50 a month for food, gas and entertainment. (By the way, that amounts to less than $25/week for living) We were so naive we did not know we were in trouble.

We had a 1960 Volkswagen that Bonnie's parents had bought her while in high school. It ran well, but I have no idea of the MPG, we just drove it. We had invested in AAA road service, and in the winter when the Madison temperatures can get below zero we used the service quite often. I finally found out that if I took a rough wool tarp type covering and wedged it in around the engine, took the battery out and brought it into the apartment that almost always the car would start in the morning. However, getting the battery out meant taking up the back seat each night and tucking the blanket around the engine compartment.

Gas was between $0.16 and $0.19 a gallon. We could fill up the car for $1.00 a week and run it all week. Bonnie became an expert at budgeting, we made a trip weekly to Piggly Wiggly on the west side of Madison as it had the best prices. No frills boy, just sustenance to subsist. We made friends with Dave and Betsy Jensen who lived next door in our apartment building. Our entertainment consisted of playing a dice game called "Shut Box" and eating Snickerdoodle Cookies chased by some Kool Aid.

We had a TV and I still enjoyed Saturday morning cartoons. Sometimes I would wheel the little fifteen inch black and white TV into the bedroom, set a timer and wake to cartoons playing. We had percolator coffee pot made of some type of plastic, it was the latest thing and that would perk away while we lay in bed watching cartoons. The damn pot would perc, then suck in air and it sounded like and asthmatic person suffering a severe attack. It made us laugh. We didn't know we were in trouble.

Later in the fall I found work in a shoe store to help offset our costs. Bonnie eventually got a second job at the shoe store, it was one way we could still spend time together. Suffice it to say we made it.

Madison taught me some early lessons. One was to trust the budgeting skill of my wife. She was incredible. I have never forgotten that lesson and use it to this day. I don't maintain the detail required when pennies meant the difference between filling the car to go to work, or buying food for a meal. It also taught me that two people can overcome enormous difficulties. It would have been tough for one person as two made a support network.

I also learned that humor never should disappear, regardless how serious the situation there will be humor show up that you should laugh at.

Bonnie and I did not stay together. We did however last for 23 years, and raised two fine daughters. I do keep track of her now, I know where she lives, I know she is happily remarried as am I. I am sure life is good for her. She has that quality to enjoy things and pretty much accept life on its terms. I have learned to try to do that, although I feel I make more of a struggle out of it than others. But life has always been good. It would be better if gas were still $0.19/gal.

Saturday, June 21, 2008

The First Day of Summer, 2008

The day started a little overcast and moisture so heavy it looked like fog. The beginning of summer in Arkansas. A doe and her fawn were out early this morning. I would not be surprised it was the fawn's first trip around the yard. The doe was very skittish. I took my morning walk, the temperature was comfortable and there was an odor in the air. I cannot describe the odor, it was a summer smell. I've smelled it before and the memory it evokes is of summer.

Many of my thoughts turn to my northern home, Munising, MI. I recall, even at a very young age being thrilled to be out in nature and the sights, sounds and smells were truly exciting. I recall the odor I sniffed this morning, I've smelled it before when school was out. A time when Joe and I had dug a Campbell's soup can of worms, each. A time when we met outside our houses and got on our bikes for a two or three mile trip out to the Annie River for some summer trout fishing. The air would have that summer smell, I cannot tell you what it is comprised of, but it definitely is summer. It is not hot, it does not smell like concrete or asphalt. It evokes the memory of walking in the woods coming out of a warm field and entering the cool woodland area. It does not smell like the Annie River, that is a separate and distinct odor. The odor does bring back exploration trips up the West Ward trail, out by St. Martin's farm. It brings back the memory of sitting on the hillside above Munising overlooking Munising Bay and looking for wildflowers such as Dutchman's Britches, or Tiger Lilies, or May Flowers. It has a little heat and dust in the memory, but one of comfort, not the dry brittle odor of August.

It was a good morning to smell that odor. I am a seven days away from going north for two weeks to spend time in my old haunts. I will see my children and grandchildren in that faraway place that remains so dear to me. I will smell summer in the north and I will be young again.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Business Sense

My Father worked for the main bank in our home town until 1948. When I was a child there were two banks competing for whatever business a small community could generate. There was the First National Bank of Munising, and The People's State Bank of Munising. The People's State Bank survives to this day.

Dad started with that bank in 1918 as a janitor. Eventually he became head cashier, and our family grew up with banking stories and events that shaped my Dad's business outlook for decades. In 1948, Dad broke off from the bank and began his own Insurance and Real Estate business. His place of business was in downtown Munising. He rented that store front from 1948 until he closed the business in 1965.

Dad did not do too well. He stayed in business 17 years which is remarkable, but when he left the business he was broke. It is hard to imagine, but he was broke at age 65 when most are retiring. He was forced to move from his home of more than 50 years and take up residence in a large city hundreds of miles away and start over.

One of the problems Dad had was he did not have a business heart. If people couldn't pay for their insurance the old man might just fork over the premiums out of his own pocket. He would tell my Mother, they just can't pay right now, the husband lost his job, is hurt or some other reason for inability to pay insurance premiums. Dad felt everyone should have insurance to protect their property or to provide for their family in the event of their death.

One such man was Roy Graves of Shingleton, MI. Roy worked in the logging industry and eventually came to own a sawmill. He made good money furnishing maple lumber to the Japanese bowling industry when that sport became the rage in Japan in the 70's and 80's. Years before though Roy had been an independent contractor cutting and hauling logs out of the forests of the Upper Peninsula of Michigan.

Times were tough, work was subject to the vagaries of weather. The lumber market was always shifting. Eventually the market was in hardwoods, but still for independent contractors life was a roller coaster. One period Roy fell on hard times and had to let the insurance lapse on his logging truck. As luck would have it, the garage it was stored in caught fire and the building and truck burned up in the blaze. A few days later Roy came to my Father and asked, "Vern, you don't suppose that the insurance on that truck was still enforce?" My Dad looked it up, and to Roy's amazement and delight he found my Dad had paid the premium and the insurance would cover the loss of the truck.

For many years every time I saw Roy he would retell the story and how much he thought of my Dad. In the end, the practice of underwriting his own business cost him the business. However, one time his practice did save a man's ability to earn a living and earned my father a friend for life.